The Powerfully Seductive Power of TOUCH

After you have posted your online personals ad.

After you have braved the navigation of exchanging a few emails.

Exchanged cell phone numbers (he provides his first, she responds to that with giving him her number, he phones first and actually ASKS her out on a Date0)

You have arranged to meet for drink and appetizers….

NOW WHAT?

When you are IN PERSON, be sure to sit …. near each other.

I prefer and recommend a seating where you are at a curved booth or at right angles.  You then exchange fabulous romantic eye contact…

Start to EDGE closer to each other….

and then (gasp) touch.

You actually can simply ever so slightly…. brush up against each other.  This fosters the building up of intensity and mutually seductive pleasure of ANTICIPATION.
Then pull back slightly.

Touch his forearm.

Put your arm around her.

Edge back closer together.
Look flirtatiously in each other’s eyes.

Then, turn away ever so slightly, perhaps reaching for your drink.

Then turn back to LQQK at them and make powerful flirtatious eye contact as you sip your beer or cosmo.  FABULOUS and FORMIDABLE, n’est pas?

TOUCH is a POWERFULLY SEDUCTIVE technique to use when dating, romancing, and flirting.

As a leading Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach, yes, of course, I help my clients to engage their logical brains.  What do you want in a relationship?  What metro area do you see yourself living?  Now?  12 months from now?  3 years from now?  Are you an introvert or extrovert?  Do you find yourself romantically balancing better with introverts or extroverts?  Go with that.

But do NOT neglect the ALL IMPORTANCE of CHEMISTRY!

Seductive Touch

Romance – yes, GIVE her flowers, bring a SINGLE rose for that Date0 and you will DISTINGUISH YOURSELF in her mind as a GENTLEMAN.  You will be UNIQUE.  Different.  Fabulous.

ENJOY!

All the best,

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach

Add a comment May 11, 2008

More ruminations on what attracts women

As an expert dating coach, I often hear from my clients, what type of man should I look for? What is my type, etc?

We, indeed, truly ARE in many ways attracted to men who remind us of our fathers or are essentially a reaction to our fathers. With my father’s death, indeed, here I am sucking down the Starbucks and am contemplating what my relationship with him, the voids and the lacks it triggered…..

Men who are protective, strong, leaders, authorities (sans being a jackass), with tenderness, well, those melt MY heart.

How about you?

What are some of the traits in men that curl your toes?

Well, yes, there ARE those fabulous things we call SHOULDERS! Oooooo!

All the best,

April Braswell

April Braswell

1 comment April 5, 2008

Freud was Right

April 3, 2008

All girls are so strongly influenced by their fathers. In my case, I married a dear sweet version of my brother. And today my father, John Y. Barry, died. I’ll comment on it more later. This weekend I am introspective. He is why I love to receive Pink Roses. For my 16th birthday, he sent me a dozen pink roses to me at school. I received them in the administrative offices. I felt like A PRINCESS. To this day, when men give me beautiful roses, I feel like A PRINCESS! Don’t you? Shouldn’t every woman? God bless and God speed. April Braswell

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